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Contrary to popular belief: Yes, there are more than just, like, five basic sex positions. (Trust us, we’re kinda the authority.) In fact, there are so many, we put together this sex positions guide with all our favorites for you to try out ASAP. Will they work for everyone? That depends! But what better way to learn than by practicing—especially when practicing can be so much fun.

“Finding the right sexual positions for you and your partner(s) is a process,” says Ashera DeRosa, LMFT, owner of Whole Stories Therapy. “I caution people from getting too hung up on doing it right and following instructions to a T. You don’t need to get your leg at an unsustainable angle or do acrobatics to find mind-blowing pleasure.”

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RT! You don’t have to be a professional gymnast to have good sex. All you need is a consenting partner, a little time, and an open mind. Here are some expert-backed tips to keep in mind before you begin your ~favorite-sex-position-discovery journey~.

Let your passion take over

The best sex happens when you feel comfortable and free to be yourself to the fullest. So next time you’re in an experimental mood, let yourself do whatever feels right and good without worrying too much about whether it’s perfect or what happens next. “To find that go-to position you know makes you both scream curse words, it’s all about letting passion take over. Roll around the bed, get on the floor, make out on the sofa and move around the room…. just don’t think about it, do it!” says Edwina Caito, head content creator at BedBible.com.

Get to know what turns you on

Masturbate your heart out and bring that wisdom to partnered sex. Do you need to have a super hardcore wand vibe, two carrots up your bum and a teddy bear between your legs to orgasm? Tell your partner! There’s no shame in this game. The same rule applies to what you’re looking for connection-wise. “Do you relish in sustained, intense eye contact? Then exploring positions that let you feel that closeness will help. Conversely, if distance lets you tap into different sensations, doggy style or reverse cowgirl can give you a chance to experience that,” says DeRosa.

The right positions for you should feel good, easy, and natural

“Once you find that perfect position where your bodies line up, those sweet spots are stimulated just right, you both hit climax together, melt into a quivering pile of goo and consider Taco Bell 30 minutes later, there is absolutely nothing more blissful,” says Caito.

Now, without further ado, this master sex positions guide is full of options depending on your situation (if you’re pregnant, on your period, stuck in a dry spell—there’s something for everyone!) or what you’re looking to try (deeper penetration, threesomes, butt stuff, etc.). Go forth and prosper!


Positions to Try if You’re Pregnant

First Trimester: The Safety Scissors

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If you or your partner are afraid you’re going to break something (the baby, your vagina—both myths), go with the shallow penetration that is the Safety Scissors. (And for the record, unless your doctor has told you otherwise, it’s totally safe for you to bang away as usual.) “With all the blood flow directed to your clitoris, grinding your pelvis against your partner will feel even better than usual,” says Aliyah Moore, PhD, resident certified sex therapist at SexualAlpha.

Second Trimester: The Tilt-A-Whirl

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During the second semester, you might want to avoid putting pressure on your growing uterus. The best way to do that, according to a poll gyno Heather Bartos MD, ob-gyn and host of the ME Spot podcast, gave her patients: Doggy style. It won for “maximum aesthetics and functionality,” plus, “some women felt the tilt of the uterus provided more pleasure,” said Bartos.

Third Trimester: The Outer Limits

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Not feeling like penetration? Grab a bottle of lube and see what happens. Try outercourse, says Janet Brito, PhD, a licensed clinical psychologist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and supervisor at the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health in Honolulu, Hawaii. Go with lots of oral, mutual masturbation or hand jobs for all.

Positions for When You’re On Your Period

The Shark Week Scissor

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Scissoring can be amazing, especially if you have some toys on hand. But believe it or not, it’s extra good when the crimson tide is flowing. “Scissoring is a great option with or without penetration if cramps are raging but that sexy feeling is there,” said Kristy Gilbraith, RN, aka The Menstrual Maven™ and founder of FLOH Wear by Undies Loft. Throw an old towel or two underneath you so you don’t have to worry about the sheets.

The Clean Up in Aisle Three

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If you’re a little skittish about getting blood all over everything, try shower sex. It’s easy clean-up, plus if you’re having back cramps, you can aim the warm water onto your back to ease the pain. You can also direct the handheld shower toward your clit or invest in a waterproof toy to do your bidding.

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The Ragtown Rumble

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What period? Get on top of your partner and slide along them. If there’s blood, there’s blood. Periods are normal, dammit. If your partner doesn’t care (which, they shouldn’t), there’s no reason you should, either.

Positions to Help You Embrace Your Submissive Side

The Bow

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Kneel down before your dominant with your knees wide apart, hands palm-up on the thighs, and eyes downcast. “This position not only enforces the idea of submission, but the open-kneed version also exposes the genitals (regardless of clothing) and adds to a feeling of vulnerability and openness,” says Rebecca Blanton, aka Auntie Vice, a kink and sex educator who focuses on BDSM from the submissive perspective. Your job is to await further instructions. “For people who cannot kneel for health reasons, sitting on a low chair or the bed’s edge with the knees wide apart and eyes downcast until the partner asks to be looked at is a great variation.”

The Submissive Wheelbarrow

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“The dominant stands while the submissive gets on all fours and lifts their legs so their dom can grab hold of them,” says Moore. “This feels super submissive, as the bottom partner focuses on staying balanced and gives their top partner complete control over their pleasure. Up the power-play factor by maintaining the submissive mindset—play the role of property, masochist, or pet. Your aim as a sub is to serve your dom, so you must give up any preferences that you might have during play.” Suggestion: Crotchless lingerie.

The Far and Wide

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“Spreader bars are a perfect accessory to make your power play super erotic. There are all sorts of positions to explore with a spreader bar, but my personal favorite is the standing bar position. The person wearing the bar stands up with their legs spread wide open. What you do then is up to you,” says Emma Hewitt, a sex educator, host and producer of sex-positive podcast The Electric Rodeo, and sex toy expert at Adult Toy Mega Store. “I recommend leaning against a countertop or wall to reduce the risk of balance loss. And always have a safe word. Spreader bars can become uncomfortable after a while, so ensure that you can safely be removed from the bar if this happens.”

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Positions if You Wanna Add Some Butt Stuff to the Mix

The Booty Trap

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If you want something happening butt-wise, access is key. They can slide a (lubed!) finger up your bum, go in for a rim job, and/or just pop a butt plug in while their clean hand rubs your clit. (Keep fingers/toys into butt and non-butt areas separate to avoid bacterial infections.)

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The Big Dipper

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If you’re trying penetrative anal sex for the first time, you’re going to want to be the one controlling how far that penis/strap-on is gonna go inside you. Anal penetration generally works better when you’re already super aroused, so that’s step one. Step two: Lube. Step three: straddle your partner’s thighs and slowly lower yourself down. Take all the damn time you need. Use a vibrator for your clit at the same time for extra gloriousness.

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The Buzzy Rub

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Get yourselves a pair of vibrating butt plugs, fire ’em up, pop ’em in and assemble yourselves in a 69 position. Instead of oral (though you can certainly do that), use your hands or toys to take each other to buzzy ecstasy.

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Positions for When You Want to Make Some Noise

The 1-800-MOAN

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If being loud feels weird or kinda porn-y, but you still want to give it a try, start with phone sex. Make it audio only, so your senses will be more attuned to each moan and sigh. (Plus, it’s way easier to be uninhibited from afar.) Start touching yourselves and talk or moan. Don’t think about what noises you’re going to make—just let them sort of arise from what you’re feeling. Real, honest sounds of desire will turn you and your partner on even more.

The Coming Attraction

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Harness the mysterious appeal of ASMR, if you’re into that. Slowly strip down, whispering softly in your partner’s ear what you’re going to do next. Do the same as you undress them, telling them how you’re going to touch/kiss/lick them. Gently stroke their cheeks or lips too—hands touching the face also triggers the response. End on their lap for a slow face-to-face grind.

The Total Banger

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If you’re worried someone might hear you, turn on a moan-hiding playlist. What you play is gonna influence the kind of sex you have, too, and timing thrusts to a particularly upbeat song can feel extra epic.

Positions for Exploring Your Dominant Side

The Sex Doll

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Have your partner lie on their back and use them as your personal pleasure palace. Hump their leg, use their hand as a masturbation device, sit on their face (more of a hover than an actual sit). Make it a little more torturous by occasionally brushing a hand or a warm mouth on or near their groin. Once you’ve had all the pleasure you can handle, let them finish themselves off.

The Dom-ish

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If you want to take control but don’t want to go full-on dungeon master, try directing the action. “Kiss my neck.” “I want your mouth on my _____.” “Don’t stop _____!” Every (good) partner wants to know the best ways to please you, and this is basically a master class.

The Pushed Button

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Get your partner on their knees and fill your hands with lube. Use a flat hand to slide over their genitals; with the other hand, slide a lube-y finger into their butt (just don’t mix up your hands or it can lead to a bacterial infection). If your partner’s not into full penetration, try gentle circles and pressing around their anus.

Positions for Deeper Penetration

The Flatiron

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“For an extra cozy position where you can feel connected without the potential for too much eye contact, try the Flatiron,” says Ruby Payne, sex expert at adult toy retailer UberKinky. “It’s basically a flat doggy style. The closer the receiver’s legs are together, the tighter things will feel for both of you.” Heat it up by propping a wand vibrator on a pillow under your hips.

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The Seashell

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According to Tatyana Dyachenko, sex therapist and relationship expert for Peaches and Screams, a good amount of flexibility is necessary for the Seashell, but you can bend your legs to make it easier. The receiver lies on their back, then lifts their legs so their ankles are by their ears. “Warning: This position can be really deep, so take it slow to start with. If you find it too deep, then wrap your legs around your partner’s body instead,” she says.

The Self Control

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“Get a large dildo that attaches itself to your wall. Put a bunch of lube on it and have complete control of how deep and fast you’re penetrated. I usually recommend doggy style with a wall dildo, but some of them are malleable and can be used in many positions,” says Niki Davis-Fainbloom, sex expert for Keepler. You can do this on your own time, or get a partner involved. “If you give your partner oral sex while riding the dildo, you may ride yourself to the moon and not return!”

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Positions to Get You Out of a Dry Spell

The Cheat Seat

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Straddle your partner while they sit down on a straight-back chair and get pumpin’. You can put your feet on the floor for extra leverage and grab ahold of the chair’s back for support when your thighs get tired. The secret sauce that makes this position extra hot? Having your partner hold their lubed, cupped hand over your vulva so you get extra clit stimulation with every thrust.

The Thirst Tap

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Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or you just haven’t seen each other in a while, you can make it work to your advantage. Buy a new sex toy and tell them exactly how you’d like them to use it on you when you finally do meet up, but don’t tell them what exactly the new toy is. Send lots of sexy pics or sexts beforehand to IRL clickbait them and build up the fantasy.

The Mirror, Mirror

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Lie on your sides facing each other and mirror each other’s movements. This position is even hotter the slower you go. You can start by teasingly tracing your partner’s lips with your finger and having them do the same. For an even more intimate vibe, you can both break out into mutual masturbation with eye contact to make things super hot.

Safer Sex Positions That Are Hot as Hell

The Double-Finger Bang

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If you feel yourself getting dry when you have sex with a condom, use this tip: Slide two well-lubed fingers in a V shape to simultaneously stroke yourself and press along the underside of your partner’s penis to give them the sensation of a tighter fit.

The Dam, Girl

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ICYMI, you can still get chlamydia, gonorrhea, HPV, herpes, and syphilis from oral sex. Dental dams, aka rectangular pieces of plastic you put over your vulva as a barrier between your mouth and genitals, can actually be super sexy if you know this trick. Have the receiver get on their hands and knees, and drape the dam over their vulva and anus. The giver can then get down and dirty with oral and rimming freely. This is also a great toe-in-the-water move for people who want to experiment with rimming.

The Show and Tell

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Lie side by side and switch between masturbating each other and touching yourselves. You can show off what you’re into, teach your partner what works for you, and have things stay super hot and sexy with making out and eye contact if you desire.

Positions to Try if Porn is Influencing Your Sex Life a Little Bit Too Much

The Free Ride

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If your partner’s reliance on porn is getting to the point that orgasming with someone IRL feels difficult, remember that an orgasm isn’t everything. Sex can be just as enjoyable without an orgasm, so do you, get on top, and go crazy. Try new angles, speeds, leg positions, lingerie, and see what helps you get to orgasm.

The Teacher’s Pet

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If you find your partner is taking too many hints from porn, you can work together to course-correct through a little demonstration. Guide their hands and mouth over you as you like, and make sure to use moans and light direction (positives like “yes,” “there,” “softer,” etc.) to steer yourself to bliss.

The Crash Into Me

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In a codependent rut with your favorite sex toy? Take a moment to ditch the toys and instead focus on simply enjoying your partner’s body without the pressure of racing to climax. Use this time to make out, kiss each other between the legs, lock in eye contact, and reset your physical connection with one another.

Positions to Try if You Can’t Get Out of Your Head

The Banana Split

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If letting someone else see your O face gives you anxiety, have your partner enter you from behind while you rest on your stomach. Bend your knees against their thighs for deeper penetration and let yourself enjoy your orgasm worry-free.

The Blindfold Bang

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If having all eyes on you isn’t your definition of hot, putting a blindfold on your partner can help appease some of those worries. Not only is it a hot sensory-deprivation thing for them, but you’ll also feel way more empowered to move around in a way that gets you off. And if you really want to try something new, both of you are blindfolded. It’s an adventure!

The Backward Swoon

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Prop your hips up on your partner’s legs so it’s almost like they’re wheelbarrowing you with your back on the bed. Have them enter you, holding your hips for leverage, while you use a vibrator on your clit. You’ve both got a great view and the angle makes things super intense.

Positions for When You Want to Shake Up Missionary

The Grinding Missionary

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This position is *chef’s kiss* when both partners have vulvas. “The majority of vulva owners don’t climax from penetration, so they can make the missionary position all about clitoral stimulation by grinding against each other’s thighs and pubic bones, one on top of the other, instead of penetrating,” says Alma Ramírez Acosta, a sexual wellness expert and cofounder of Vibio, a female and LGBT-owned startup making app-controlled sex toys. If you need/crave more stimulation, add toys and/or vibrators. “Double-ended strap-ons allow both the giver and the receiver to be penetrated at the same time.”

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The Sensory Missionary

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Don’t be afraid to play with your senses. “Play with sensory deprivation and/or overload,” says Jess O’Reilly, PhD, sex expert at Astroglide. “Wear a blindfold. Turn the lights off. Overload your auditory systems with loud music. Lay down a silk or satin sheet. Place something soft and furry between your bodies. Play with the senses to heighten your response to touch, sound, sight and more.” Take it in whatever romantic, exploratory or BDSMy direction you please.

The Floating Missionary

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“To really ramp up missionary, invest in a sex swing,” says Dyachenko. “Floating missionary is great because the penetrating partner can pull their partner onto them whilst thrusting. It’s also great for eye-to-eye contact and lots of kissing.”

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Sex Positions to Help You Orgasm Faster

The Hobby Horse

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Straddle your partner’s thigh and grind against it for some much-needed clitoral stimulation. You can add a sex toy into the mix as well. Anything wearable, with a flat edge to fit between you, or even a bullet vibe that you’re comfortable holding in place will work here.

The Pre-Party

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Sometimes the concentration required to bring you to orgasm can make it harder to get there. Let yourself relax, and use a toy to get yourself to the brink of orgasm while your partner kisses your neck and spoons you. When you’re 75 percent there, let your partner take over control of the toy and take you the rest of the way there.

The Rag Doll

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Let your body go limp like a rag doll and take long, deep breaths as you approach orgasm. While your first instinct might be to tense up, relax and see if that helps you get there faster.

Even Hotter Oral Sex Positions

The Prop Engine

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Sandwich a large vibrator between the box springs of your mattress or the frame of your couch. You can grind up against it while on your knees when you’re giving your partner head.

The Hump and Blow

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Straddle a pillow between your legs and hump it while you go down on your partner in bed. You can also slip one hand under their leg to prop yourself up for stability while using your free hand to touch yourself.

The Yin-Yang Edge

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Lie sideways in a 69 position and trade off so one person is doing all the receiving at a time. Bring each other to the brink of orgasm and then trade off.

Positions for When You Want to Bring in Your Vibrator

The Reach-Around

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Have your partner spoon you and stimulate your clit using a small bullet vibrator. They’ve got one hand free to touch your breasts, entangle your fingers together, play with your hair, trail your stomach—endless possibilities!

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The Fly Away With Me

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While resting with your back on a pillow, one of your legs around your partner’s back, and your foot against their chest, use your free hand to hold the vibe. They can thrust and enjoy the view while you concentrate on your orgasm.

The Give a Dog a Bone

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The easiest, hands-free doggy-style position out there. Prop your crotch up on a pillow and position a vibrator to hit your clit perfectly as your partner thrusts. With your hands free, you can grab ahold of the sheets as you writhe around in ecstasy.

Steaming Hot Shower Sex Positions

The Water Work It

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While you go down on your partner, hold a removable shower head between your legs to stimulate your clit. Bonus: The odds of getting water in your eyes are pretty low with this one.

The Wet ’n’ Wild

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Ride your partner in the tub with your hands on their shoulders for stability. You can rub your clit against their body this way while controlling the depth of penetration. This leaves their hands free to lather up your breasts, if that’s something you’re into.

The Bent-Over Bather

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“But shower sex doesn’t allow for crazier positions!” you say. Then you haven’t tried the Bent-Over Bather. For this one, you’ll want to steady yourself on something sturdy while your partner enters you in standing doggy. The rush of blood to your head is enough to up the ante on anything.

Variations on the Doggy Style Position

The Booty Pop

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In a rush? Naked? Horny? You’re in luck. Strip down naked and bend over a couch/side of the bed/stool/laundry hamper. Brace yourself as your partner takes you from behind, and don’t forget to look back every so often to admire the curve of your own back.

Don’t Think You’re Ready for This Jelly

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It’s called “jelly” because of all the lube that comes into play. For anal newbies and veterans alike, this spooning position is great because it allows you the space to relax and ease into it. Plus no eye contact! Feel free to make as many weird faces as you want.

Positions for When You Want to Incorporate Your Breasts

The Golden Globes

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Lie horizontally across your partner, squeezing your knees and thighs together to wiggle against them (the added friction is great for clitoral stimulation). Dangle your boobs over their mouth and see if they can stand the torture.

The Ta-Ta Tease

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Ah, ye olde classic titty fuck of yore, but this version gives you a free hand to stimulate yourself, too. While seated on a couch or elsewhere with your back up (and with copious amounts of lube because chafing is real), have your partner rub themselves between your breasts while you touch yourself. It’s like seeing a Broadway show in a small theatre—every seat has a good view!

The Breast Friends

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Have your partner sit on a chair, then straddle them so they can give your boobs the up-close-and-personal attention they so deserve. Sitting in this position gives them the perfect access to lick or suck on your breasts while you take control of the rhythm of the night and bounce to your heart’s desire on their penis or strap-on. Should you have enough breast in the chest to do it, try joining them in on the action and licking yourself too.

Positions to Peg Your Partner

The Reverse Doggy-Style

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If you really wanna roll with the dominatrix dynamic of pegging, this is the way to go. Have your partner get on their elbows and knees in bed with their ass up while you take them from behind. Brace your ankles against their calves for added stability and enjoy the ride. It’s a great view, and if you get off on power, this is one of the hottest positions out there.

The Reverse-Cowboy

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Lie on your bed with your head propped up on a pillow while your partner straddles your legs facing away from you, propping themselves up on their elbows. They can control the speed at which they take your strap-on and keep a hand free to play with themselves.

The Chairman of the Board

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It’s all about that view, baby! Sit in a chair and have your partner straddle you, controlling the depth and speed with which they get penetrated. This is great for beginners because it puts your partner in the driver’s seat while you get primo access to stimulate them from the front and/or nuzzle them with kisses.

Oral Positions You’ll Both Benefit From

The Mouth Off

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Lie with your head nearly dangling off the edge of the bed and touch yourself while taking your partner in your mouth. While this is not a move for beginners, submissive folks will certainly enjoy the power play of surrendering control. Plus, that rush of blood to the head is definitely fun.

The Open Wide and Say “Aaah”

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Consider this a sexier version of the classic 69. Have your partner lie on their back while you straddle them and give them upside-down head. Stick your booty up and out so they can use your favorite toy or fingers to bring you to completion all while enjoying the sexy front-row view.

The Auto Blow

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Similar to the Mouth Off, prop your head on some pillows with your partner kneeling behind you and take them into your mouth. You can use your hands to touch yourself, keep them on your partner’s genitals, or press against their thighs to stay in control of the pacing and angle.

Threesome Sex Positions

The 69 Plus One

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For this position, you’ll want to all get on your sides and form a circle so you’re all giving and receiving. If you feel like not enough attention is being paid to you, you can also have the person who’s supposed to be going down on you use a vibrator or their fingers instead.

The Happy Cuckold

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Sit against your primary partner’s chest and dangle your legs over the butt of your third partner while they enter you. Your main partner gets a helluva view and the close contact is a huge turn-on for you too.

The Double Blind Bind

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Make sure you’ve really established all your boundaries and safe words before trying this one, because it does take a certain level of trust to pull off. For this, put on a blindfold and have one of your partners tie your knees to your wrist (gently and with slack to rock around and still enjoy a reasonable range of motion). Have them take turns entering and going down on you and guess who’s doing what based on their touch and sounds alone. And if the idea of being tied up and blindfolded is too much, it also works if you just close your eyes.

Super Sexy Solo Sex Positions

The Long Way Around

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Trying to spice it up a bit? Try masturbating while facedown and reaching your hands around the back and through your legs. If you need an extra boost, throw a pillow under your hips for added oomph.

The Slip and Slide

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If you’re lucky enough to have unfettered access to a pool or hot tub with jets, try saddling up next to the jets so the running water hits your bits in all the right places. Just make sure you’re alone first!

Pretend Lover

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Pop a squat on a suction-cup dildo affixed to the surface of your choice and go to town. Even if you don’t orgasm from penetration, that doesn’t mean it can’t still feel amazing. Plus, for the normally shy, this lets you act out all your wild sex fantasies without an audience—for now.

Sex Positions for Ladies Who Like Ladies

The Breast Enhancement

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Have your partner lean against a pillow with their legs open while you kneel between them. Then, lean in so only your nipples are touching and rub their clit with your hand or a vibrator. Tease them by pausing from time to time to kiss their breasts or nipples.

The Defying Gravity

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You might have to test-drive all the chairs in your household to find a low one that allows you to reach the ground and support yourself before diving into this one, but when you do, it’ll be worth it. Have your partner sit on said chair while you kneel with your ass in their face, straddling them. Bend so your booty is in the air and prop your hands up on the ground for extra support while they go to town on you. The rush of blood to the head will make it all worth it.

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If you have a strap-on and a dildo, this is a great classic take on missionary. Enter them, making sure your nipples brush up against each other with every thrust. If you’re both comfortable with it, too, this is a great position to try while one of you also has their arms tied up above their head.

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Quality Time Examples — What is the Quality Time Love Language


By now, you have in all probability at minimum read the term “like languages” in reference to relationship. Since when it comes to interactions, the phrase, which originated from the reserve The Five Really like Languages: How to Categorical Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate composed by Gary Chapman, PhD, is really crucial to making lasting bonds with buddies, family members, and considerable many others.

Pretty merely, “love languages are approaches individuals talk with the folks they care for,” describes licensed scientific social employee and creator of Composing with Really like, Ashley Starwood. “They can train you how to best appreciate your partner and are an outline of methods to exhibit your lover adore and passion in a way they can obtain it.”

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Believe about it: Some persons feel to textual content with their partners nonstop, some are all about the PDA or regular sex, and some people never miss out on the possibility to spoil their S.O. with gifts. That’s since, according to Dr. Chapman, people today are inclined to gravitate toward a person of five really like languages when displaying affection: quality time, words and phrases of affirmation, functions of company, physical touch, or gifts. These adore languages reveal how you display your like and very likely how you want to get appreciate as properly.

The very first phase, of system, is to actually master what your and your partner’s like languages are. (Here is a no cost love language examination you can acquire to figure it out.)

The second phase is understanding additional about your particular enjoy language. And if post-quiz you’ve uncovered good quality time ranks superior for you or somebody you really like, you’re in the right area.

From what the quality time enjoy language implies to courting guidelines, strategies, and qualified guidance, here’s every little thing you require to know about this like language.

What does it mean if your like language is excellent time?

As the identify indicates, this adore language implies you crave paying out “fruitful and attentive time” with the individuals closest to you, clarifies Starwood. The important right here is that you are not just sitting side-by-aspect staring at your phones, but you’re basically actively participating with a person an additional.

“Quality time is supplying your undivided consideration to your lover,” suggests Valerie Poppel, PhD, a clinical sexologist and co-founder of The Swann Middle, an firm that features inclusive sexual training and coaching. “In today’s earth, we’re plugged into every little thing but potentially our associates.”

Extra unique illustrations, tips, and information beneath, but in shorter, Dr. Poppel claims individuals with this like language extremely benefit being in the identical space—physically, emotionally, and mentally—with the people they appreciate.

If you are contemplating this appears a lil clingy or unfavorable, all the professionals agree: High quality time is totally not a poor like language to have—in simple fact, none of them are.

“None of the like languages insinuate that you are needy,” clarifies accredited relationship and loved ones therapist and operator of Modern day Appreciate Counseling, Alysha Jeney. “All of us want some way to truly feel unique and beloved. High-quality time signifies you respect the simplicity of human conversation. You wish experience found and understood.”

What are some indicators your adore language is high quality time?

High quality time as a really like language can occasionally feel tricky to pinpoint given that most people today crave time alongside one another to some diploma. The major component right here is you locate top quality time to be the *major* source of validation in your connections, states Jeney.

“You come to feel most liked when you and your liked a single(s) shell out uninterrupted time together,” she clarifies. “You could appreciate good quality engagement, eye speak to, and reciprocal communication. You enjoy any time the two of you can have a shared practical experience.”

Once again, the tricky section is that a lot of us appreciate expending good quality time with our men and women to some degree. Nonetheless, persons with this really like language usually go out of their way to make it happen.

“Quality time people today will generally make a point of environment designs jointly to prioritize the time put in with their partner,” says Damona Hoffman, OkCupid’s official courting mentor and the host of the Dates & Mates podcast.

A couple other symptoms to seem out for: Emotion specifically harm if your loved types appear to be distracted when you’re chatting to them, emotion lonely if you really don’t get sufficient time with your lover, or feeling particularly upset if your actions or time together is canceled or postponed.

What are some illustrations of good quality time?

When it arrives to appreciate languages, excellent time could seem to be self-explanatory, but it may possibly essentially just take you a lil little bit of apply to learn, specifically given that what’s viewed as high quality time depends on the person. Hoffman, whose adore language is quality time, states for some people today, it could possibly indicate scheduled just one-on-a single time. For other folks, it could signify just remaining in each others’ presence.

In this article are some professional-advised good quality time strategies to think about when attempting to make your human being experience liked:

  • Actively observing a clearly show or film together without the need of your telephones
  • Starting off a new Tv series with each other
  • Reading a e-book aloud
  • Cooking alongside one another
  • Going to the pet park with each other
  • Heading for a walk around the block
  • Consuming out without your telephones
  • Acquiring espresso together
  • Likely grocery procuring
  • Volunteering jointly
  • Actively listening and responding to their stories
  • Placing your gadgets down when they are chatting to you
  • Having a stimulating dialogue
  • Undertaking a property project collectively
  • Planning a vacation or staycation
  • Heading on a trip or staycation
  • Working out or hiking jointly
  • Picking up a new interest as a pair
  • Talking about and arranging your aims collectively
  • Scheduling weekly date evenings
  • Comforting together—like in the tub or on the beach front
  • Seasonal things to do such as pumpkin carving, ice skating, or tree decorating

    As you can see, there are tons of distinctive means to commit top quality time with a person. But since choices can change, Dr. Poppel advises inquiring your companion to share 10 things they genuinely want to do, and then doing it all with them.

    Whatever the pursuits are, the intention listed here is to be actively engaged. “Simply providing your companion undivided attention, eye speak to, and working with energetic listening are also wonderful techniques to invest good quality time jointly,” describes Starwood.

    What occurs if excellent time is your adore language but you are in a prolonged-distance romantic relationship?

    Ahead of you start panicking about how to shell out excellent time jointly if you happen to be in an LDR, sexual well being educator and founder of wellness web site It truly is Just a Coochie Jasmine Akins claims there are a great deal of approaches to be with each other even though aside.

    Feel virtual lunch dates, video examine-ins, a early morning ritual via Skype. Lean into absolutely everyone you learned for the duration of lockdown and apply it to individuals long-distance top quality time-craving interactions. Since even though it is definitely doable, it also requires some get the job done.

    What are some relationship suggestions if you or your partner’s really like language is high quality time?

    “A single of the strongest communicators of love is time,” says Dr. Poppel, so figuring out how to use your time in a way that will make your associate really feel ooey gooey is essential. She advises working towards lively listening with out interrupting them or supplying unsolicited assistance, placing your cellphone away, and operating on giving them your undivided notice to start out.

    And actually, no matter your adore language, this will aid in each individual romance you have. This is what to maintain in brain in basic although.

    If your partner’s enjoy language is high quality time:

    1st and foremost, if high quality time isn’t really your primary really like language, it may well come to feel fairly weird to go out of your way to plan a thing as very simple as hanging out alongside one another. But contemplating how plugged-in we all are, Dr. Poppel says it truly is one thing lots of couples are majorly missing. “We may perhaps be sitting down proper next to [our partners] for hrs but are not actually with them,” she states.

    In order to make it occur, Akins claims you have to prioritize it. A shared calendar and weekly/regular monthly day nights centered around organizing long term things to do are fantastic ways to keep on top rated of things and make certain you don’t skimp out on excellent time. And when the high quality time is occurring, place your cellphone away and use your human body language to present you’re existing.

    If quality time is your like language:

    You need to have to let your partner know ASAP. Due to the fact couples frequently have distinct love languages, if your partner doesn’t know how highly you worth excellent time, they may well not make as much of an effort and hard work in regards to planning out day nights.

    And even though you will find nothing incorrect with seeking the awareness of your spouse, Starwood suggests it truly is vital to have awareness encompassing when it is and isn’t appropriate to question for it. “Placing time apart for each and every other can help in having the tension off to make every exercise quality time,” she advises.

    As with most items marriage-smart, it really is all about harmony, conversation, and regard.

    What need to you get an individual whose adore language is high-quality time?

    Given that top quality time people are extra about experiences than wrapped up presents, you could be at a little bit of a loss. But “any way that you can invest time with your liked one particular will count as a good reward,” says Starwood.

    In advance of you assume that usually means you can convert on Netflix and allow that count as their birthday present, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven Taylor Sparks implies you feel much more along the traces of live performance or movie tickets, a prepared date night at a swanky cafe, a couples massage, or a getaway/getaway.

    You also really don’t have to spend a ton or even plan to depart the residence for a quality time gift, especially if you want some thing they can unwrap and get pleasure from correct then and there. Do-it-yourself a day night time with a therapeutic massage e-book and intimate oils, order a Modern Really like Box, or established up a cute evening meal at residence with their fave treats and temper lighting.

    In essence, top quality time people today really like presents of upcoming high quality time, claims Hoffman, so lean into that concept when shopping for holidays, birthdays, and specific occasions.

    What if you will not have the exact really like language as your companion?

    The fascinating detail about love languages is you you should not have to have the same one particular as your lover for points to perform. It all just comes down to interaction and comprehension how you desire to give and acquire love. Because most men and women give like how they like to get it as a default, recognizing your partner’s like language is top quality time can enable you comprehend that when they plan a unique date or work to sync your schedules, that’s them exhibiting you their like.

    Jeney also indicates similarly investing in working towards every single other’s adore languages as frequently as possible—even if it’s not purely natural at very first. And all the execs agree speaking about your desires, demands, and boundaries can help you come across a stability and compromise that performs for you equally.

    In the end, it won’t matter regardless of whether you by natural means talk every other’s love languages, suggests Sparks. “Adore is a selection. You have selected to like them, so find to really like them in the method that they desire to be cherished.” Do that and a lifetime of partners massages, high quality time, and happily ever immediately after is undoubtedly in your foreseeable future.

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Venus Retrograde in Capricorn 2021 Meaning and Horoscope by Sign


Each and every calendar year and a 50 % or so, Venus, the world of ~adore~ and romance, turns retrograde. You know Mercury Retrograde, correct? Very well, Venus Retrograde is kinda like that, but in its place of messing up your vacation strategies, technologies, and communications, it is really heading straight for your lurve everyday living.

A swift clarification: We say a world is retrograde when it seems to transfer backwards in its orbit from our POV in this article on Earth. In astrology, it’s s a time when the locations of existence that specific world rules—for Venus, which is love, pleasure, attractiveness, and money—come up for review and get a tiny wonky.

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Venus’s rotation is the natural way reverse Earth’s and the world is virtually *proper up coming to us* in the solar method, so this planetary slowdown will undoubtedly be felt when it begins on December 19 in Capricorn. In fact, you may possibly currently come to feel that pre-retrograde shadow, which began on November 17.

Right up until the retrograde finishes on January 29, 2022, we will hear from our favored or not-so favourite-exes who are resurrected them selves from the grave to say “Boo!” (or “Joyful New Calendar year!”) one extra time. They may be wanting to hook up, to discover closure, or just to lead to some drama. All this retrograde-y action will go on to reverberate right up until the write-up-retrograde shadow (aka retroshade) ultimately ends on March 1, 2022.

Which is suitable: We’ll be working with this electricity for a looonnnggg time. Get utilized to declining calls from your ex. If that does not get the job done, then hit that block button and really don’t appear again.

Browse your Venus Retrograde horoscope:

Aries

You have been imagining about your former boo extra than you would like to admit. And you would like to reconcile—maybe even get again together??? Having said that, you happen to be apprehensive they don’t reciprocate your emotions. You are going to never ever know until you consider a leap of religion and start the dialogue.

Taurus

A likelihood come upon could direct to an awkward operate-in with your ex, ending with them asking you out for a coffee day. Meditate on no matter whether or not you seriously want to open up that door prior to you acknowledge (or decrease!). TBH, it’s best for you to concentrate on sinking your teeth into a person new.

Gemini

There is a likelihood that you are included in a major electricity enjoy with an ex. And this pent-up rigidity could lead to a significant make-out sesh that you did not see coming. Delight in the minute although it lasts…prior to you determine that they are not value the pressure.

Most cancers

Like most of us, you panic placing your self out there and want to protect your heart at all costs. Rather of working absent from the past, experience your ex and have a really hard discussion about what went incorrect. Odds are that you’ll the two wander absent as buddies.

Leo

Following many flirty texts, you may possibly turn out to be EWB (exes with rewards) or have a a person-night time stand with your ex. TBH, that is ok with you! You are not seeking for strings, and you never want to complicate things with the new man or woman you happen to be crushing on/courting. Continue to keep it gentle and have enjoyment!

Virgo

A love triangle is forming between you, your ex, and your existing boo…primarily simply because you want to have your cake and take in it far too. Ahead of jumping into this scenario, glance at all the angles to ensure that you are not the one particular who loses in the conclusion.

Libra

Although you are likely to recycle exes, you’re opting to set this reunion on ice. You just are not in the mood to listen to the excuses and rehash everything. As well as, you’re entirely around the gaslighting. So when you get a DM, bench them instead of partaking with their strength.

Scorpio

You will find a massive chance that you are going to be acquiring back alongside one another with your previous flame for the very long haul. The emotional roller coaster journey you have been on will hit a high, sparking passionate sentimentality and an rigorous relationship when you both equally get nostalgic more than the following months.

Sagittarius

You hardly ever appear back, but Venus Retrograde may well reconnect you with an ex who’s been obtaining issues transferring on. Give them the probability to categorical their feels and allow them have the closure that they have to have. Imagine of it as your holiday getaway present to them!

Capricorn

You really feel an urge to ship a welcoming textual content to your ex. But be forewarned, there will be absolutely nothing pleasant about their response. The minute they get the message, you’ll be in a struggle. Really don’t worry, you know what emoji to text them in response.

Aquarius

A couple of late-evening beverages and some top secret rendezvous can lead to a low-critical fling with a previous lover. Engage in it great and go gradual. Just before you make strategies to reunite forever, figure out your feelings. Are they severe, or is this just bodily attraction?

Pisces

Your ex will infiltrate your pal team to try to dig for data on your current romantic relationship status. Rest assured, your crew won’t share any deets. However, that does not necessarily mean your former boo is going to prevent there. Get all set for them to depart a remark or five on your vacation ‘gram.

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Adam & Eve’s Best Black Friday and Cyber Monday Sales 2021


Whether you’re a sex toy aficionado or a newbie, there’s a good chance you’ve at least heard of sex toy retailer Adam & Eve. The site, which sells everything from bondage items to butt plugs to lingerie, always has great deals and epic holiday sales.

But it looks like it’s going above and beyond for 2021 because, well, we deserve it. Not only are tons of items going to be marked down, but depending on the day you shop, you can score even more phenomenal deals, too.

Get your pen and pencils ready:

  • Though Black Friday is over, you can still get 45% off one item from November 27 to November 28 with code TAKE45.
  • For Cyber Monday, you can use the code BONUS50 to get 50% off on November 29, and then get even more shopping in with Adam & Eve’s Cyber Week sale. From November 30 through December 5, tons of items will be majorly marked down—like, up to 80% off—which means there’s never been a better time to stock up on bedroom essentials.
  • For all new customers in general, you can save 50% on another order by using “COSMO50” to save 50% on an additional item. (But no, you can’t combine promo codes, so if you’re a new customer, use the “COSMO50” one first because it’s only for new customers, whereas “BONUS50” is for anyone—repeats included).
  • Just a heads-up, “COSMO50” isn’t limited to Black Friday or Cyber Monday, so feel free to use this code whenever ya like.

    Now, allow me to present to you some of our fave picks. Enjoy!

    1. Eve’s Petite Private Pleasure Wand

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    At 5.83 inches long, Eve’s Petite Private Pleasure Wand is smaller than your average wand vibrator but has a surprising amount of power for such a cute lil toy. With 10 different functions, 60 minutes of play per charge, and waterproof capabilities, it’s pretty easy to see why this bb is a best seller year after year.

    2. Big O Multi-Stage Vibrating Penis Ring

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    Another best seller year after year: this textured penis ring. The stretchy toy has nine vibration speeds and comes with a replacement battery so you’ll be able to use it time and time again without fear of it failing you (one battery lasts up to 80 active minutes). Whether you’re a penis ring pro or novice, this is a must-have.

    3. Fifty Shades of Grey Inner Goddess Silver Jiggle Balls

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    Odds are, you’ve at least heard of Ben Wa balls (especially if you’re a fan of Fifty Shades), so why not take the infamous toy for a ride? These bad boys are similar to OG Ben Wa balls in the sense that they’re made of metal, but they also come with an optional silicone strap that makes removal super simple, which is def advised if you’re new to the experience. Pro tip: Pop these balls in warm water or the freezer to practice temperature play as well.

    4. Adam & Eve Booty Boot Camp Training Kit

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    If you’re looking to give anal a try, training your booty is a must, and this kit makes it fun and simple to do. Coming with three differently sized anal plugs—all of which are made from body-safe silicone that is easy to clean and has a tapered tip for seamless insertion—it’s a good idea to snag this. And for $15ish bucks on sale, your butt will thank you.

    5. Adam & Eve The Complete Lovers Kit

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    Okay, so this seven-piece set is a great kit for anyone—pros and beginners—since it includes a whole bunch of goodies. With a vibrator (which needs two AA batteries, FYI), three textured vibrator sleeves, Ben Wa balls, a cock ring, and anal beads, it kind of feels like you’re stealing this stuff by getting it for 50% off.

    6. Liberator Ramp & Wedge Combo

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    Sex wedges are, without a doubt, one of the best investments you can make for sex life since they make pretty much every position for every type of sex more comfortable and way more pleasurable. This wedge and ramp combo is made from dense foam that’s firm yet comfortable and has velour covers that are removable, washable, and stain-resistant.

    7. Eve’s Rechargeable Thrusting Rabbit

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    It’s rechargeable! It’s trusting! It’s waterproof! And it’s clear why more than 100,000 of these toys have sold thus far. If you’re not part of the rabbit fam yet, this is the perfect toy to start with since it has 10 different settings and 3 separate motors to make for one powerful and pleasurable sexcessory. And if you get it with the coupon code, it’s only $50, which is kinda unheard of for the level of quality it offers.

    8. Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

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    If you’re looking to get a lil kinky and dip your toe into the world of BDSM, a good beginner’s bondage kit is def the way to go. This E. L. James–approved set comes with everything you need for your own ~red room of pain~ with wrist and ankle cuffs, a blindfold, and adjustable restraint webbing. For under $40, it’s a great option to see whether dom/sub play could be something that gets ya going.

    9. Adam & Eve Lubricant

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    You can never go wrong with a good lube, especially one that’s water-based—which means you can use it with toys. You might as well stock up on this best-selling lubrication while shopping since it’s (a) super cheap, (b) super great, and (c) beloved by more than 775,000 pleasure lovers.

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Bridge Sex Position – How to Do the Bridge Sex Position


If you are looking for a major end to penetrative sex—like the arching your back, I ought to have you ideal TF now kind—you have to have to know about the Bridge position. Indeed, that Bridge placement exactly like what you’d do in yoga, but with sexual intercourse. You lie on your back, retaining your shoulders on the bed, and increase your hips with your knees unfold about hip distance aside. Set your weight on your feet and shoulders whilst your lover kneels in between your legs to accomplish through peen or dildo, arms, mouth or toy. It is a video game-changer.

What tends to make the Bridge posture so wonderful?

“While some intercourse positions are excellent for heat-up—the much more personal ones with much more kissing, cuddling, and eye contact—the Bridge placement is finest when your associate or both equally of you are prepared to finish. Which is mainly because it allows for deeper and additional aggressive thrusting for any penis-obtaining spouse or spouse with a penetrative item like a dildo,” suggests Aliyah Moore, PhD, Resident Certified Sex Therapist at SexualAlpha.

Appears kinda challenging. Why do it?

Perfectly, it’s pretty much the identical as a main workout, so sure, thighs and abdominal muscles will be engaged. But in tiny doses, so truly worth it. “It is good for people with compact penises, or companions with vastly unique heights. It lets for deep penetration and inside stimulation, and also can make it uncomplicated to manually encourage the receiving partner’s clitoris or penis,” says Shannon Chavez, Licensed Psychologist and K-Y’s Sex Therapist.

And it is outside of visually incredibly hot. If you’re boosting your hips to push nearer to your partner’s penis/dildo/mouth/toy/fingers, it’s a rather evident tell that you want far more of them.

How to make the Bridge even better

Add pillows

“Add props to enhance pleasure. Start with pillows that can be placed underneath the base of the obtaining companion, which will elevate the hips and enhance strain, friction, and sensation to enhance their pleasure likely,” claims Chavez.

Use extravagant lube

“Use a stimulating lubricant like K-Y’s Rigorous Enjoyment Gel beforehand to maximize the depth of sensations,” says Chavez. You can also experiment with all types of CBD elixirs or other arousal gels.

Enjoy with toys

“If you want to deliver this situation to the future level, use your clit or bullet vibrator for additional powerful sensations,” states Moore.

Some versions, if you will…

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The Cross

“For a much more peaceful knowledge that involves a lot less muscular harmony and deeper penetration, try the Cross,” states Moore. “Instead of getting the top partner keep the base partner’s hips for steadiness, the bottom partner will simply just wrap their legs all over the top associate.”

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The Lazy Bridge

Can’t deal with any main engagement? Then it is the Lazy Bridge for you. “This is wonderful if you are experience lazy or a bit bloated following your dinner date or a thing,” claims Moore. “To do this, the getting husband or wife just lies at the finish of the bed or couch with their legs hanging in excess of the edge. Then, the penetrating lover stands up and faces their spouse to carry their legs toward their hips although thrusting.” Exact deep penetration + no workout (for you, at least). Use a clitoral vibrator for max enjoyment.

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